Signs Your Husband is Cheating (and How to Make Him STOP)

You don’t have proof yet, but you see some signs your husband is cheating.  Did you ever imagine being in this place when you first started out together? What a world of worry and pain you must be living in (I know).

signs your husband is cheating

Is it the young woman at work that “he’s just friends” with? Or the old flame that he’s been chatting with on Facebook?

Has he become distant, silent, and won’t touch you or look you in the eyes? Does it just feel that he’s not interested in you anymore?

Common Signs Your Husband is Cheating

 The truth is that there are dozens, even hundreds of warning signs when a husband is cheating, but for me (and for many women I know), it was a deep instinct, an inner voice nagging at me, warning me that even though my husband is still living with me, emotionally he has checked out of our marriage a long time ago.

Sadly, in most cases, these instincts turn out to be a heart-stabbing reality. And even if he isn’t cheating (yet), he is vulnerable to being STOLEN by another woman.

If your instincts confuse you right now, a few common signs your husband is cheating are:

1. Visible Signs – If your husband made a sudden and drastic makeover (wardrobe changes, his grooming, his body, personal hygiene), it’s probably not for you. More than likely he is trying to impress someone else.

2. Work Habits – Men often use their job to as a cover for an affair. Any change in his daily work routine may be a sign that he is cheating.

3. The Way He Relates To You – This can go in 2 directions: Either he is suddenly MORE affectionate and caring (for no apparent reason) or he is extremely distant, avoiding contact and not communicating.

4. Financial Habits – If your husband has a lover, he’ll want to take her out and give her things (the way he gave you at the beginning of your relationship). No matter how badly he’ll try to hide it, sooner or later this will be reflected in your family finances.

5. Sex – Changes in the frequency or the quality of your sex life may be warning signs of an affair. Wants more sex than he used to? A sign. Wants less sex? Also a sign.

6. Travel – Your husband may be using travel (for work) to as an opportunity to cheat away from prying eyes.

7. Emotional Affair Signs – If your husband is sharing his private thoughts and feelings with someone else, this is a definite warning sign of an emotional affair. If he gets angry when you ask him questions about a female friend, raise the red flag.

The Single Most Important Mistake to Avoid

I know how impossible it feels to resist the urge to confront him with your suspicions – But I urge you to stop, unless you have solid and irrefutable evidence.

Accusing your husband of cheating without proof will lead to catastrophe, in 2 ways:

1. If you have no proof he will deny and most probably run (angrily) out of the house, which gives him a chance to “get his story straight“. This will lead to more lying and to things getting worse.

2. Confronting him without proof will give him time to decide what he wants to do next – Stop cheating and work on your marriage, or leave you for the other woman. You don’t want this decision to be made under pressure.

How to Make Him STOP Cheating NOW

No matter how hard it is for you to grasp right now, but you CAN have it all back. The soft touch on your arm as you’re walking together, that loving glance across the dinner table, his love, admiration and respect.

You CAN get through this and make your marriage better than it ever was. If you use a few clever techniques (like I did), you can make him beg to hold you close in his arms and regret the day he ever laid eyes on another woman.

Infidelity, whether is be emotional, sexual or internet cheating throws a hammer into a marriage. Looking for signs your husband is cheating is only the first step in a long healing journey your marriage will probably have to go through.

If you want to try to affair proof your marriage – This is exactly how to do it.

Rooting for ya,

Lisa

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  1. If he cheated I wouldn’t take him back. I wouldn’t even want him anymore and I would be happy embracing my singledom. :)

  2. It’s called “fighting like a woman for your man”. My dad cheated and mom fought for him. She won him back to her and to the Lord through her testimony.
    Now if only mom had used those God given skills in the first place he wouldn’t have looked else where to begin with. However, she is a Godly woman and when she realized her mistakes had been a huge factor in sending him away she worked hard and prayed to overcome those mistakes.

    Today my parents are still married and their marriage hs been made stronger because it endured the fire.

  3. I’m a guy whose wife isn’t interested in fighting. We love each other a ton, and have lots of sex (literally 2X per day, after almost 20 years), but there isn’t a lot of desire to just hang out. She’d prefer I do that with other women.

    I currently am extremely close to another woman – some people would say we are in ‘emotional affair’ territory. However, we don’t have any interest in being physical, I tell my wife everything, and I like to think we’re just great friends. Most women would be pretty upset by this, but my wife loves it. It gives her a chance to unwind on her own.

    I almost wonder if having an affair would make things better. For years I have said how much I miss my wife ‘fighting’ for our marriage. How much I miss her sending me texts during the day or calling. How much I miss just hanging out and talking. Or a really long hug or holding hands in an intimate manner. But she’s not interested. She wants hot sex, but that’s about it.

    Any thoughts?

    • Wow, this is really an unusual story…
      About having an affair, I just don’t see why you would do that. You’ve said that you and your woman-friend is not even interested in sex with each other. Why not just keep it as a great friendship (instead of risking your marriage)?
      I think that you really love your wife and I can understand your problem. But how about finding something that you both like to do together (instead of just “hanging out”) and suggest that to her?
      For example, maybe she likes dancing. Or going to movies. Maybe she has a hobby that you can enjoy participating in. I think that she may really like it, don’t you?

  4. Thank you for the info am exactly in such a married relationship for 15 years have prayed, have burst out in anger still no change