We always say that our relationship is a priority, but keeping the spark in our love life too often ends up at the bottom of our to-do list.
We need fast and easy ways to spark a relationship. It’s really hard to make it through years of coupledom without losing interest, love or attraction for one another, especially if you have constant and stressful financial problems and a few demanding (yet adorable) children to raise.
Between working, keeping a clean home, cooking and sometimes raising children, the romance in the relationship evaporates. No hugging, no kissing, a boring and predictable sex life, and all too often – Constant fighting.
Before you know it, you start being afraid that your man will start to look elsewhere. That he will cheat, that he already has. That your relationship is in serious danger.
The Quickest and Easiest Ways to Spark a Relationship
We’ve all read the same old tips and advice about ways to spark a relationship: Schedule time for hugging, date nights, sexy lingerie, romantic homemade dinners and what not.
In other words, more work. Really…who has time to make a gourmet romantic dinner every week? How many sexy baby dolls do I have to buy from now on? Do these things even work?
I think that the modern way of life requires a modern way to spark a relationship. Easier, faster and more effective.
Texting the Romance Back to Your Relationship
Texting, my (girl) friends, is the secret key to your man’s romantic mind.
Before you laugh, think about this for a while:
Men are inlove with their cell phones. They really are. Most men are absolutely addicted to their cell phone, and if you’ve tried having a conversation at the dinner table while your guy is surfing the web on his phone, you already know this.
Instead of appearing nagging and unreasonable for trying to force him to pay attention to you, you can use texting to get to him no matter where he is or what he is doing. Think about how powerful that is.
How to Use Texting to Bring the Spark Back
You don’t have to take my word for it. Maybe you’ve heard about Michael Fiore. He’s kind of a celebrity. He’s been on the Rachael Ray show, in a bunch of newspapers and magazines and is an authority when it comes to showing you how to use this texting thing to crawl into a man’s mind.
So…why does it work? Well…Here’s one of the ways it works:
Guys respond amazingly to visual stimuli. Unlike women, who are less blunt and more emotionally-complexed, men have simple needs when it comes to emotions and romance.
If you want your man to give you the attention that you deserve, you’ve got to speak his language first. This means using VISUAL language in your text.
One Powerful Example
I’ve stolen one example from Michael Fiore’s book – “Text the Romance Back“, I hope he doesn’t mind:
The word “imagine” is the single most powerful word you can use when you text your man. It’s the principal of anticipation and it will make him smile and plot romantic thoughts for the rest of the day.
Your first text is this: “I can stop thinking about…”
Of course he will reply with: “About what?” (Curiosity is sparked)
Your next text is: “All I can do is sit here and imagine what it’s going to be like when I see you again”.
Girls, I’ve tried this and it’s amazing. My husband admitted that from that moment on he couldn’t think about anything else besides “imagining” what it’s going to be like to see me.
When he came home, I looked him in the eyes and asked him quietly: “Did you get my text?”
You can imagine what happened next. (I don’t kiss and tell…)
Advanced Texting Techniques to Spark a Relationship
This example is of course the tip of the iceberg when it comes to using simple little text messages to drastically improve the intimacy, connection and passion in your relationship.
Michael Fiore is really an expert in this texting stuff. If you want you can see his interview on the Rachael Ray Show, where he gives a crash course and some more powerful examples for texts that will make your guy crave for you like he never has before.
Do you think it will work for you too? Do you agree with me that this is the easiest way to spark a relationship? Decide for yourself after you watch the video.
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