Why is it that men just can’t help looking at other women? No matter how attractive you are, and how much he loves you, your man probably “checks out” other women all the time.
How to Keep Your Husband From Cheating
Even the most beautiful women in the world can not escape this reality. Even the most attractive women in the world have been cheated on, and will keep being cheated on until the end of time. Unless…
Why Men Look at Other Women
No matter what you will do, our husbands or boyfriends are wired to be visual. There’s nothing you or they can do to change that (even if they wanted to). This is how they were created.
Beautiful women are not only attractive because of their looks. The fact that they are strangers adds a dimension of mystery to them, which makes them even more attractive.
But we are not defenseless against the Victoria Secret models or all other gorgeous women that seem to be everywhere.
Nature has given us women a few ways to keep your husband looking at you and to be the only woman he really looks at. One of them is a hormone called “Oxytocin”.
Have you ever heard about the neurochemical Oxytocin?
A new study from the University of Bonn has found that the neurochemical oxytocin, just may be a fidelity drug for monogamous relationships.
The researches administered oxytocin or a placebo through a nasal spray (why can’t this be commercially available? Sounds very useful…). An hour later, the men were introduced to attractive women.
The women would alter their distance from the men and the men were asked to indicate if the distance was comfortable to them or made them feel uncomfortable.
The men in committed relationships (as opposed to those who were single) preferred to keep a greater distance from the attractive women!
Apparently women are created with the ability to produce Oxytocine to keep our men faithful – With the simple gift of touch.
Hugging with your husband? Oxytocin is produced.
Holding hands? Kissing? Oxytocine.
Spooning in bed? And of course sex? Oxytocine.
Oxytocine keeps your husband from looking at other women.
2. The Power of (Regular) Sex
The importance of regular sex in a marriage is undeniable. A man who regularly has sex with his wife (no matter the quality of it by the way), is less likely to look at other women or consider being unfaithful.
Sex is not only an emotional need for men, it’s important to them physically. Men crave sex as much as they crave food, or water. It’s a basic need and when it’s not met, well, just try and see how long you can go without food and you’ll understand.
If for some reason you don’t have enough sex (for most men that means at least once a week), it may become a bit difficult to keep your husband from looking at other women.
If you have trust issues, due to past infidelity, it’s a whole different story. If your husband has cheated on you in the past and you can’t seem to get over it, it’s completely normal to have problems on your sex life.
You will not be able to keep your husband from cheating (again) until you rebuild the trust and the love in your relationship.
3. The Power of Texting
Wait, don’t laugh just yet.
Texting is an extremely powerful way to keep your spouse’s attention on you and you only – Where ever he is!
Just think about it: What is the one thing that goes everywhere with your man, and gets his attention immediately no matter how busy he is or what he is doing?
That’s right. His mobile phone.
Texting, my friends, is the secret key to your man’s romantic mind.
Believe me, he won’t stare at his attractive co-worker after he has just received this text message from you:
“All I can do is sit here and imagine what it’s going to be like when I see you again”
That’s it. He will spend the rest of his day thinking about and trying to find out what you imagined. You’ve put a lock-down on his mind.
I have shamelessly stolen this example from Michael Fiore’s program – “Text the romance back“, which is probably the most cutting-edge relationship advice book I have read in a long time.
Don’t believe me? Just give it a try.
This one text will not be enough of course, there are plenty of amazing texts you can send to your husband to keep him interested in you and you only.
For me it was one of those things that were too good to be true. But it works – Like a charm.
How about you? Do you have other ways to keep your husband from cheating?
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