How to Keep Your Husband From Cheating – In 3 Easy Steps

how to keep your husband from cheating

This was the first idea that came to my mind

Why is it that men just can’t help looking at other women? No matter how attractive you are, and how much he loves you, your man probably “checks out” other women all the time.

Even the most beautiful women in the world can’t keep their men’s eyes on them only.

Even the most attractive women in the world have been cheated on, and will keep being cheated on until the end of time. Unless…

How to Keep Your Husband From Cheating

No matter what we’ll do, our husbands or boyfriends are wired to be visual. We can’t change that.  No choice but accepting this fact.

Beautiful women are not only attractive because of their looks. The fact that they are strangers adds mystery to them, which makes them even more attractive.

But we are not defenseless against the Victoria Secret models or all other gorgeous women that seem to be everywhere.

Nature has given you a few sneaky ways to keep your husband looking at you and to be the only woman he really looks at. One of them is a hormone called “Oxytocin”.

1. Oxyto-What?

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Have you ever heard about the neurochemical Oxytocin?

A study from the University of Bonn has found that the neurochemical oxytocin, just may be a fidelity drug for monogamous relationships.

The researches administered oxytocin or a placebo through a nasal spray (why can’t this be commercially available?…). An hour later, the men were introduced to attractive women.

The women would alter their distance from the men and the men were asked to indicate if the distance was comfortable to them or made them feel uncomfortable.

The men in committed relationships (as opposed to those who were single) preferred to keep a greater distance from the attractive women!

Apparently women are created with the ability to produce Oxytocine to keep our men faithful – With the simple gift of touch.

Hugging with your husband? Oxytocin is produced.

Holding hands? Kissing? Oxytocine.

Spooning in bed? And of course sex? Oxytocine.

Oxytocine keeps your husband from looking at other women.

2. S-E-X

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The importance of regular sex in a marriage is undeniable. A man who regularly has sex with his wife (no matter the quality of it by the way), is less likely to look at other women or consider cheating.

Sex is not only an emotional need for men, it’s important to them physically. Men crave sex as much as they crave food, or water. Sex for them is  a basic need and when it’s not met, well, just try to see how long you can go without food and you’ll understand.

If for some reason you don’t have enough sex (for most married men that means at least once a week), it may become a bit difficult to keep your husband from looking at other women.

It’s a different ball game if f you have trust issues, due to past infidelity. If your husband has cheated on you in the past and you can’t seem to get over it, sex is the first place that “gets hit”.

You have to learn to deal with the painful emotions to rebuild the love in your marriage. You have to learn to regain the trust. And even if it seems impossible, it is not.

Keeping your husband from cheating will be impossible until you rebuild the trust and the love in your relationship.

3. The Power of Texting

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Wait, don’t laugh just yet.

Texting is an extremely powerful way to keep your spouse’s attention on you and you only – Where ever he is!

Just think about it: What is the one thing that goes everywhere with your man, and gets his attention immediately no matter how busy he is or what he is doing?

That’s right. His mobile phone.

Texting, my friends, is the secret key to your man’s romantic mind.

Believe me, he won’t stare at his attractive co-worker after he has just received this text message from you:

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“All I can do is sit here and imagine what it’s going to be like when I see you again”

That’s it. He will spend the rest of his day thinking about and trying to find out what you imagined. You’ve put a lock-down on his mind.

I have shamelessly stolen this example from Michael Fiore’s program – “Text the romance back“, which is probably the most cutting-edge relationship advice book I’ve read in a long time.

Don’t believe me? Just give it a try.

This one text will not be enough of course,  plenty of amazing texts that you can send to your husband to keep him interested in you alone – Are out there.

For me it was one of those things that were too good to be true. But it works – Like a charm.

How about you? Do you have other ways to keep your husband from cheating?

Rooting for ya,

Lisa

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Comments

  1. says

    This is great, Lisa! Not only was I entertained by your creative and tongue-in-cheek style of writing (and photography, by the way!), you also give some great evidence for why this happens and what to do about it. I love the “texting” idea too. I use texts to stay in touch with my hubby and lift him up a lot throughout the week. Thanks so much for sharing this over at Wedded Wed, my friend!

    • says

      Hi Beth:)
      It seems that lately your comments on my posts are the best part of me week..:)
      You always make me smile!:)
      Thanks for the visits, always happy to read your thoughts:)

      Lisa

  2. says

    Great points, Lisa! To answer your question, I’ve never actually thought about doing anything to keep my husband from cheating. As a matter of fact, I’ve never thought about him cheating at all. We talk…alot. We spend time together…alot. We hold hands, kiss, stay connected when we are anywhere within the same vacinity. We are best friends. We tell each other everything (may even be too honest at times). We keep our bodies in shape so we remain physically attractive to each other.

    I guess you can consider all these things answers to that question. But I’ve simply never thought about it in those terms. I just love being married (and married a man who loves being married to me :)).

  3. says

    This is very creative and inspiring, Lisa! I trusted my man so much but i love the power of texting, it works in our everyday lives! ;)
    Visiting you from the Happy Wives Club Link Up.

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